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Visiting Others :
Choose good people to build relationship/friendship with
There is a great reward in visiting relatives and pious people.
Pay attention to own behavior and manners during visits
Do not force her to visit whom she does not feel comfortable with
Allow her to visit her parents/siblings/relatives and also friends
Allow her to attend Marriage functions, Wedding Parties, Matrimonial Matters
Conduct During Travel :
Offer a warm farewell and good advice
Ask relatives and friends to take care of the family in your absence
Try to stay in touch with her whether by phone, e-mail, letters, etc
Take her with you to any marriage function and/or wedding parties you are attending
Returning as soon as possible :
Bring her a gift! At least some sweets and/or Flowers
Avoid returning at an unexpected time or at night
Tell her that you were not happy to depart from her
Financial Support :
You need to be generous within your financial capabilities
You should not be a miser with your money
Even for a small piece of bread that you feed her by your hand
Feel her needs and make it a habit to give her before she asks you of anything
Practice good Hygiene :
Practice hygiene removing always be clean and neat.
Dress yourself up with available fine cloths
Healing Touch :
Never quarrel in the bed room. All insults and injuries caused to the relationship during the day time must be medicated and healed on the bed.
Keep in mind that insults and injuries inflicted upon to the feelings on the bed could not be cured anywhere else.
Guarding Privacy :
Avoid disclosing private information such as bedroom secrets, personal problems and other private matters to anyone else.
Do not insult her before anyone and behind her
In case of need consult with appropriate Doctor and help her to understand the gravity of the situation
Showing Respect for her Family and Friends :
Take her to visit her family and relatives, especially her parents.
Invite them to visit her and welcome them
Give them presents on special occasions
Help them physically and also when needed with money, efforts, etc
Keep good relations with her family after her death if she dies first
Keep giving what she used to give in her life to her friends and family
Avoid excess jealousy and Possessiveness :
Avoid excess jealousy, which could damage the relationship. Examples of jealousy are:
Analyzing every word and sentence she says and overloading her speech by meanings that she did not mean
Assuming things which are actually not mean.
Preventing her from going out of the house when the reasons are just
Preventing her from answering the phone
Having doubts on her without proper reasons.
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